1. Why come to therapy? What are the benefits?

Therapy can help you:

  • Heal from trauma, PTSD, and distressing experiences
  • Ease anxiety, depression, and emotional overwhelm
  • Strengthen your relationships and shift attachment patterns
  • Navigate identity, life transitions and relationship struggles
  • Rebuild self-trust, boundaries, and connection
  • Ease anger, shame, and self-criticism
  • Find meaning, balance, and calm in your daily life
  • Feel  more calm and confident

We will work together – with compassion and curiousity – to help you find relief from emotional pain and distress and move towards what matters most to you.

2. How do I know what type of counselling is right for me?

It’s common not to know which therapy approach will help most. You don’t have to know ahead of time.

I will listen to what brings you to therapy, your strengths, concerns and challenges, and from there I will offer a counselling approach. With your consent and collaboration, we will work toward your counselling goals. We will continue to check-in and adapt our work together, to provide care and support for you in the counselling process. 

3. What is EMDR therapy?

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is an evidence-based trauma therapy that helps the brain and body heal from distressing memories, patterns, and beliefs.
By using bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tapping, or sound), EMDR helps your nervous system resolve stored trauma.
It can be especially effective for PTSD, complex trauma, anxiety, shame, self-criticism, and chronic overwhelm.
You do not need to share every detail of your trauma for EMDR to work.

4. Can I use my extended health benefits for therapy?

Most extended health plans cover counselling with a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC).
Each plan is different, so check your benefits to confirm coverage.
I provide receipts you can submit for reimbursement.

5. Do you offer a sliding scale?

Yes. I have a limited number of sliding-scale spots for clients with financial need. Please ask if you’d like to be added to the waitlist.
I also offer lower-cost group therapy options.

6. How do I book a free introductory consultation or counselling session?

You can click here or email me at stephanielofquistcounselling@gmail.com. I am open 9am-7pm and have flexible scheduling options. You’re welcome to email with any questions before booking.

7. Do you provide online counselling?

Yes. I use Jane app’s online platform which is PIPEDA compliant (find more information about Jane app’s privacy compliance here https://jane.app/guide/online-appointments-and-privacy-laws

Many clients find online sessions convenient, and effective and easier to fit into daily life.

 8. How can I get the most out of online counselling?

Clients find it helpful to:

  • Find a quiet, private space
  • Use headphones for comfort and confidentiality
  • Test your internet connection before sessions
  • Log off other devices to reduce distractions
 8. How can I get the most out of online counselling?
  • Find a quiet, private space
  • Use headphones for comfort and confidentiality
  • Test your internet connection before sessions
  • Log off other devices to reduce distractions
  • Have water, a blanket, or grounding items nearby
10. Do you offer group therapy and what are the benefits of group therapy?

Group therapy offers connection, community, and shared understanding. It reduces shame, builds emotional skills, increases self-compassion, and helps people feel less alone. I offer trauma-informed, queer-affirming groups at accessible rates.

11. What is a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC)?

An RCC is a mental health therapist registered with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors.
RCCs meet professional standards for education, training, and ethics.
Many extended health insurance plans cover counselling with an RCC, making therapy more accessible.

12. What is the difference between a psychologist and a therapist?

Therapists / Counsellors (including RCCs):

  • Provide mental health counselling, trauma therapy, EMDR, somatic work, and relational support
  • Focus on emotional healing, coping skills, and behavioural change
  • Often have lower fees
  • Typically covered by extended health benefits

Psychologists:

  • Hold a doctoral degree (PhD or PsyD)
  • Can provide psychological assessments
  • May offer therapy and specialized testing
  • Often have higher fees and different insurance coverage

Both can be helpful — the best choice depends on your needs

13. Are chatbots or AI mental health tools the same as a real therapist?

No. Chatbots and AI tools can help with general coping strategies, grounding exercises, or psychoeducation, but they cannot replace the safety, attunement, or clinical skill of a trained therapist.
A therapist provides:

  • Relational support
  • Trauma-informed care
  • Ethical responsibility
  • Nervous system co-regulation
  • Tailored treatment
  • Deep understanding of your history, identity, and lived experience

AI can support—but not replace—real therapeutic connection.

14. How long does therapy take?

It depends on your goals.
Some people attend short-term therapy (6–12 sessions), while others prefer long-term support.
We check in regularly to make sure therapy aligns with your values and pace.